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Of course, number 1 is choosing the right person.  What's interesting is, according to this article, a man usually knows, statistically within six months, whether he wants to marry a woman.  What is more accurate for all is that most people will drop their best behavior mask within 3 months, so you have a better idea of who you are dealing with.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Ossiana Tepfenhart, yourtango(dot)com
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Although there are several behaviors that can potentially wreck a relationship, there are 4, when avoided, that can greatly improve your chances of not getting a divorce.  Being accusatory and blaming your spouse unfoundedly is at the top of the list.  Second, escalation.  There is nothing worse than watching high emotions and stress spiral out of control causing people to do and say things that are unforgivable or unretrievable.  The last 2 are also important, invalidation and alienation.  Both of these severely undermine a relationship.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Dave Elliot, yourtango(dot)com
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Sometimes the best communication is simply, truly, actively listening to your spouse.  Instead of inserting your own opinion into the conversation, acknowledge to your spouse that you hear them.  Another simple skill is to respond back to your spouse what you just heard them express.  An even stronger effect is to let your spouse know when they are right.  You don’t have to lose ground or strength by agreeing or letting your spouse know they are right.

Here are 5 Sweet Phrases That Can Turn Your Marriage Around Before It's Too Late

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Bree Maresca-Kramer, yourtango(dot)com
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There are so many things going on when you first start to consider filing for a divorce, and although things are very emotionally charged, it is extremely important to take a moment and explore your options and take certain steps before you move forward.

Mediation and Collaborative Divorce can be the most productive, cost-effective avenues to pursue, as highlighted in this article. 

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Daniel Feininger, moneydigest(dot)com
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Many people think that Prenups are just about self protection for the possibility of a future dissolution of a marriage.  However, there are many unexpected benefits of negotiating and preparing a Prenup Agreement.

It can be a powerful tool to actually create a more secure marriage for the future.  This article discusses five (5) ways that a Prenup can help rather than hurt.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Scott Levin, yourtango(dot)com
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A huge thank you to Ilyssa Panitz for having me on her show "The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz" this past Saturday & Sunday, where we discussed prenups for same-sex couples and the fact that legalized marriage has not solved all problems for LGBTQ families.

For those of you who might have missed the podcast (or if you'd like to listen again) I've attached the audio file below!

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The Benefits of Thoughtful Estate Planning

Thoughtful estate planning is an important part of financial management, offering numerous advantages to individuals and their families. This proactive approach involves careful preparation for the distribution of assets and the management of affairs in the event of incapacity or death. By considering one's wishes and goals and implementing a comprehensive estate plan, you can create peace of mind and security for you and your loved ones. Our friends from Cohen & Cohen discuss these benefits in more detail below.

Maximizing Asset Protection and Preservation

One of the primary benefits of thoughtful estate planning is the ability to protect and preserve assets for future generations. By establishing a clear plan for asset distribution, individuals can ensure that their wealth is transferred to their chosen beneficiaries according to their wishes. This minimizes the potential for disputes among family members and provides financial security for heirs and beneficiaries.

Minimizing Tax Implications

Thoughtful estate planning empowers individuals to minimize the impact of estate taxes and probate fees on their assets. Through strategic measures such as establishing trusts, making lifetime gifts, and leveraging tax exemptions and deductions, individuals can reduce the tax burden on their estates and maximize the amount of wealth passed on to their heirs.

Healthcare Preferences

Estate planning allows individuals to make critical decisions regarding healthcare and medical treatment. By creating advance directives such as living wills and healthcare proxies, individuals can specify their preferences for medical care in the event of incapacity. This allows for their wishes to be honored and that they receive the appropriate medical treatment according to their values and beliefs.

Appointing Trusted Representatives

Thoughtful estate planning facilitates the appointment of trusted individuals to manage affairs in times of need. By naming executors, trustees, and guardians for minor children, you can rest easy in the knowledge that your affairs will be handled competently by professionals acting in your best interests. This provides clarity and direction during challenging times and alleviates the burden on loved ones.

Protecting Assets from Creditors

Furthermore, estate planning enables individuals to shield their assets from creditors and legal challenges. Through the implementation of asset protection strategies such as irrevocable trusts and legal entities like limited liability companies (LLCs), individuals can safeguard their assets from potential claims and lawsuits. This preserves wealth and ensures integrity for the benefit of their heirs and beneficiaries.

Thoughtful estate planning offers a wide range of benefits that extend beyond financial considerations. From protecting assets and minimizing taxes to ensuring healthcare preferences and appointing trusted representatives, estate planning provides individuals with peace of mind and security for themselves and their families. By taking proactive steps to develop a comprehensive estate plan, individuals can reap the rewards of thoughtful estate planning and leave a lasting legacy for generations to come.

Consulting with a knowledgeable attorney is the best way to start your estate planning journey. With their expertise, you can confidently create a plan that effectively addresses your specific needs and goals.

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It's Pride 🌈 Month!

Please join me on "The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz" as we discuss not only prenups for same-sex couples but the fact that legalized marriage has not solved all problems for LGBTQ families, and in fact for divorce creates new ones!

Show times are Saturday, June 29th @ 10am and Sunday, June 30th @ 5pm PT on CRN1

Concetta Spirio.  A Compassionate Collaborative Divorce Attorney, Mediator & Peacemaker Providing The Highest Level of Legal Representation For Over 35 Years.

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