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11 Unintentional Things That Destroy Marriages Faster Than Cheating

Posted On: October 19, 2026

Even subtle things, like casual conversations after work, "keeping the peace" by avoiding an argument, or forgetting to say "thank you," can be detrimental to a relationship's long-term health, longevity, and happiness. In fact, many of the unintentional things that destroy marriages faster than cheating seem innocent in the moment, but end up sparking tension and resentment between partners that becomes impossible to ignore.

The more you suppress complex feelings, avoid conflict, and "protect" your relationship from discomfort, the more unequipped you become to deal with the inevitable emotional outbursts and confrontation on their way. And your relationship will suffer because of it.

Here are 11 unintentional things that destroy marriages faster than cheating…

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Zayda Slabbekoorn, yourtango(dot)com
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Happily Married Husbands Who Love Their Wives Usually Say 8 Phrases In Casual Conversation

Posted On: October 05, 2026

Happily married husbands who love their wives aren't afraid to share how they feel in casual conversation. The words they use when their relationship comes up show how much they value their wives, rather than turning them into fodder for jokes.

Dedicated husbands love to brag about how special their wives are. They know they’re lucky, and they never take it for granted. It shows in the way they speak about her, especially when she isn’t around.

Here are a few phrases happily married husbands say in casual conversation that show their love…

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Haley Van Horn, yourtango(dot)com
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13 Heartbreaking Things Divorce Steals From You (That No One Warns You About)

Posted On: September 22, 2026

It's always the obvious losses that everyone talks about when discussing divorce. But what many people don't realize is that divorce touches parts of your life in unexpected ways, quietly reshaping aspects of your identity that you never thought you needed to prepare for. 

Recognizing these subtle changes for what they are can help you feel less alone in your experience. Divorce might steal certain things, but awareness will give you the power to rebuild, replace, or release as you create your new chapter.

Here are 13 heartbreaking things divorce steals from you that no one warns you about…

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of yourtango(dot)com
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A Timeline of Divorce in America

Posted On: September 15, 2026

Divorce was once uncommon and highly stigmatized in the United States. Until the introduction of no-fault divorce in the 1960s and ’70s, states typically required one partner to prove the other’s misconduct by the other in a costly, complex process that often favored men. 

Attitudes—and laws—changed as the institution of marriage and gender roles have evolved. A July 2025 assessment by the Institute for Family Studies calculated that roughly 40 percent of first marriages end in divorce.

Here’s what American divorce looked like from the colonial era to the 21st century.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Jordan Friedman, history(dot)com
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Gray Divorce: Why More Women Are Ending Marriages in Midlife

Posted On: September 08, 2026
Midlife divorce is one of the fastest-growing trends in America as women 50+ rethink the second half of life.

While overall divorce numbers have declined since reaching a peak in the early 1980s, in recent years they’ve begun to soar among one demographic: people 50 and up.

The numbers are revealing. Between 1990 and 2019, “gray divorce” jumped from nearly 9% to 36%. And just this year alone, nearly 40% of divorces were among Gen X’ers. It’s even higher for Boomers. A 2021 report from the U.S. Census Bureau finds that divorce rates for people 65 and up tripled during roughly the same time period.

Contact me at 631-277-8844 or cspirio@spiriolaw.com for a free no-obligation 15-minute initial consultation to find out how why gray divorce is becoming more common, and how I can help you.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Helen Carefoot, theflowspace(dot)com
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Words of Wisdom From The Legendary Dolly Parton

Posted On: September 01, 2026

Dolly Parton was many things in her long career: a trailblazing songwriter, a singer with an unforgettable voice, a pop-culture presence par excellence, and more. But she was also one of the most quotable people of her era.  Practically every time Dolly spoke into a microphone, she said something hilarious, surprising, or wise — often all three at once.

A steadfast and beloved ally to the LGBTQ+ community, she used her platform to champion love, diversity, and acceptance long before it was widely accepted in country music.  Her friendship with the community spanned several decades and was defined by genuine love rather than political posturing.

As the world continues to mourn her after the news of her death at age 80, here are 25 of Dolly Parton’s greatest quotes on life, music, fame, God, and more.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Rolling Stone, August 25th, 2026
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“Anything went”: When America Went Wild for Queerness In The Forgotten Golden Age of Drag

Posted On: August 24, 2026

In 1869, a ball was held in Harlem that would later be termed “the event of the season.” Organized by the Grand United Order of Odd Fellows, the stars of this ball were drag performers who sang, danced, and strutted their stuff in front of thousands of people. It was a smashing success, so much so that even straight people flocked to attend future balls.

It was at that ball that a phenomenon that would someday be termed the Pansy Craze began to percolate, and in the 1920's and 1930's, Jean Malin was the era’s queen.

This is a fascinating and informative article on the history, performers, and "pansy" clubs of this era.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Rebecca Batley, lgbtqnation(dot)com
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Kevin Costner's Prenup Held. He Kept the Ranch, the Catalog, and Nearly Everything Else Because of Clauses Any Couple Can Copy

Posted On: August 17, 2026

If you are engaged, remarrying, or already married with a prenup gathering dust in a drawer, the Kevin Costner divorce is worth two minutes of your time. A court upheld his prenuptial agreement, and press accounts credit that document with letting him keep his ranch, his film catalog, and nearly everything else he brought in. The wild part: the clauses that did the heavy lifting are standard prenup provisions any couple can write into their own agreement, and most people either skip them or botch the execution.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Michael Williams, 247wallst(dot)com
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