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These Couples Have Been Married 40+ Years - Here's Their Advice For A Long, Happy Relationship

Posted On: March 22, 2026

Couples who have been married 40, 50, or even 60 years were asked a simple question: What relationship advice would you give to your younger selves?

The participants ranged from a mid-60s couple who had just celebrated their 40th anniversary to a 99-year-old who had just celebrated 66 years of happiness with his bride.

This advice captures more than 500 years of earned wisdom from these beautiful relationships...

Here are 25 pieces of relationship advice that everyone needs to hear...

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Sahil Bloom, cnbc(dot)com
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When Is Divorce a Solution to Marriage Problems?

Posted On: March 16, 2026

Building and sustaining a loving marriage is one of the most, maybe even the most, important life focus. Why? Much research has established that marriage generally brings major benefits to participants' lives. Married folks, statistically, have better physical health, enjoy more feelings of well-being (emotional health), and even end up better off financially.

Still, when marriage partners argue, engage in behaviors that their spouse finds unacceptable, or repeatedly bump up against differences that cause ongoing tensions, the conflicts can result in a marriage that creates more stress than satisfaction.

Six suggestions on when to fix a marriage and when to flee.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Susan Heitler Ph.D., psychologytoday(dot)com
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"Failure Is Impossible": Why We Remember Susan B. Anthony

Posted On: March 09, 2026

Failure Is Impossible were the last words Susan B. Anthony spoke in public. She was a woman of remarkable courage and intellect who devoted her life's work to the pursuit of social justice and a woman's right to vote.

Amazingly, she was the first woman to register and place a vote as a citizen of the United States and was subsequently arrested as a result of her actions, charged with illegal voting.

She died 120 years ago this week, and after each presidential election, her gravestone is adorned with "I Voted" stickers.

Here are a few other powerful quotes from her life...

Men, their rights, and nothing more; women, their rights, and nothing less. This served as the masthead for her newspaper, The Revolution.

Independence is happiness. A short but definitive statement found in many of her writings.

No man is good enough to govern any woman without her consent. A core tenet of her argument for female suffrage.

Organize, agitate, educate, must be our war cry. Her strategy for achieving social and political reform.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Wikipedia, The History Channel
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When Two People Are Destined To Get Divorced You Will See It In These 11 Obvious Signs

Posted On: March 02, 2026

While there are many things that contribute to a couple drifting apart and toward separation in a relationship, the true "point of no return" is actually emotional disengagement. Not caring enough to check in with a partner, avoiding hard conversations, suppressing emotions or concerns, and struggling with intimacy — when two people are destined to get divorced, you will see it in these obvious signs.

Even if partners don't realize these subtle shifts over time, by the point where they're emotionally and physically checked out, it's incredibly hard to reignite the spark, rebuild trust, and come back together.

When two people are destined to get divorced you will see it in these 11 obvious signs.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Zayda Slabbekoorn, yourtango(dot)com
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Married Men Are Revealing The "Hardest Parts" Of Marriage That No One Talks About

Posted On: February 24, 2026

Marriage is flat-out determined work every day; you must keep at it and not give up. I loved my wife; some days, I'm sure she wanted to kill me, but she still loved me. But to make it work for us for the 38 years we were together, it was truly day-by-day solid effort every day.

A few married men share the hardest parts of marriage that no one talks about...

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Liz Richardson, buzzfeed(dot)com
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Shout Out To Coney Island Cyclone Bagels...Where Every Bite Is A Thrill!

Posted On: February 15, 2026

I just had to give a shout-out to Coney Island Cyclone Bagels @ 2028 Surf Avenue in Brooklyn...

They are a non-profit owned bagel shop with a focus on staffing and training veterans.

I'm so looking forward to checking out their delights the next time I'm in town!

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How to Survive a Marriage You’re Not Happy In

Posted On: February 09, 2026

A third of Americans who’ve ever been married may go on to divorce, but this isn’t an option for everyone. Barriers to legally breaking up can include financial constraints, religious or moral prohibitions, cultural values and stigma, fear, or simply practicality.

So, what’s an unhappily married person to do when they’re unable or unwilling to leave a relationship they can’t stand?

Following are six tips to make the most out of a marriage that's making you miserable.

*NOTE:  The above is intended for individuals in unhappy but not abusive relationships only. If physical abuse, severe addiction, or exploitation is occurring, prioritize your safety and contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline if this is your experience.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Jessica Schrader, psychologytoday(dot)com
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‘I Feel Guilty’ — Women Share The Unique Pain Of Divorcing ‘The Good Guy’ Who’s Just Not Good For Them

Posted On: February 02, 2026

Divorce can be incredibly traumatizing and devastating, whether or not you're separating from a toxic partner or "the good guy." But divorcing "the good guy" comes with a whole different kind of pain because there's usually no dramatic betrayal. On the outside, he looks like the exact partner that you should feel grateful for, but the truth is, being good and kind isn't always the same as being compatible.

One woman admitted that after 21 years with her husband, she decided to get a divorce. However, she affirmed that her husband wasn't a bad guy at all, but he just wasn't the kind of partner that she could continue to stay with.

She explained that while her husband wasn't terrible, there were some things she would tell people that would send them "into orbit." One of those things was that he never told her that he loved her.

The end of her marriage happened because of a thousand different cuts...

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Nia Tipton, yourtango(dot)com
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